Friday, November 20, 2009

Bad News

We went to NIH yesterday and Jim has a lymph node that is enlarged in his left groin. Doctors feel it is most likely a return of his cancer. They will schedule a needle biopsy of the node and a PET scan to see if there are any internal nodes that are enlarged. Needless to say it was very disheartening news and we are still trying to process it. Jim sleeps most of the day, is very depressed and discouraged. Can't say I blame him. It has been advised that we postpone the hip surgery that was tentatively scheduled for Dec. 11 and we will go for a meeting at NIH on Dec. 10th. By that time all of the tests should be completed. Don't give up on us with your prayers as we will need all the help we can on this journey. Thanks for your love and support. Barbara
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4 comments:

  1. Margaret HallNovember 21, 2009 at 2:57 PM

    Barbara and Jim ...
    You both are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I miss seeing Jim at Baileys ... and the children are always asking where he is.
    Kath introduced me to this blog, and I'm so grateful that I can send my regards.
    Margaret Hall

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  2. AnonymousNovember 21, 2009 at 5:11 PM

    Aunt Barb and Uncle Jim,
    Mom told me to check the blog. I spoke with Mom earlier today. It was great speaking with you the other day, you are a strong woman and Uncle Jim, I am sure appreciates that, although it can be hard at times for him to show you, as I am sure you know but sometimes good to hear. Our prayers are with you also, please tell Uncle Jim that the kids loved the icecream and they gobbled it all up:-) Love, Shar, Jere & kids

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  3. AnonymousNovember 21, 2009 at 8:58 PM

    You know that you are both in our prayers always. May God continue to give you strength to take one day at a time. Hopefully we'll be down to see you soon Love and God bless Jeanie

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  4. AnonymousNovember 22, 2009 at 1:18 PM

    Dear Barbara and Jim,
    We are sad of course to hear about the enlarged lymph node. We love you two and we continue to pray for both of you and all of the family! Jim, you are the most courageous fighter and Barb, you are the most patient and loving caregiver that Jim could ever have. Much love and tons of hugs and kisses coming your way from us and all the gang here. We are thinking positive.
    With love always,
    Frank, Jeanne and Alyssa

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