My dearest Jim was born into eternal life yesterday at 2:35 pm. I was with him as he took his last breaths. He had been sleeping peacefully for two days and the children and I and some close friends had quality time with him during that period. I will miss him so. Love, Barbara
Funeral arrangements:
Visitation at Murphy's Funeral Home; Sunday, Jan. 17, 2-4pm and 6-8pm
1102 W. Broad St.
Falls Church, VA 22046
Funeral Mass at Holy Trinity Catholic Church; Monday, Jan. 18 at 11:00 am
3513 N Street, NW
Washington, DC 20007
Parking is difficult in Georgetown so friends may want to allow extra time.
Friends and family are welcome to join us at Joe & Ann's house following the service.
In lieu of flowers the family suggests memorial donations to:
Life with Cancer
8411 Pennell St.
Fairfax, VA 22031
OR
Capital Hospice
2900 Telestar Ct.
Falls Church, VA 22042
Inurnment will be on Feb. 26, 2010 at Arlington National Cemetery at 3pm. Friends can gather at the Administration Building, Fort Meyer, Virginia at 2:30 pm.
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Barbara,
ReplyDeleteAs Christians we know that this is a wonderful time for Jim, but quite sad for family and friends left behind. Jim was a wonderful person whom I had the priviledge to know as a friend and a co-worker for many years. Please accept my sincerest condolences and know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Paul Richard
Dear Barbara & all the family,
ReplyDeleteYou and Jim always came to whatever little party or celebration we were having - driving many hours from VA to get here. I always appreciated the sacrifice you made to be with us. Family was always so important to the both you and now I know why. It's because you have one heck of a wonderful and loving family! My heart goes out to all of you. I still have (and display it in our living room) the little doll Jim sent me from Germany so many years ago. I have always, and will always, treasure it as a remembrance of my Godfather. Rest in peace, Jim. My prayers are with you, Barbara, and with all your family.
Love,
Regina & Rick
Aunt Barbara, Joe, Erin, Michael, Kathleen, and Jim and all the Fays;
ReplyDeleteMy uncle, your husband and father, leaves behind many wonderful memories in those who love him. I will always fondly remember my times in his presence, and we wish you all strength and serenity during this difficult time.
Love,
Aaron (Ilona, and Jayden)
A great man, an Irish gentleman, a leader, a soldier. Jim's foresight created a small Army Intel unit that saved innumerous lives during Desert Shield and Desert Storm. The talent he gathered with a shoe string budget and technological foresight made National and Service agencies cringe, but soldiers sing praises.
ReplyDeleteTemplates were plotted in DC of Iraq enemy locations and were transmitted to forward deployed units in minutes not days. They never knew what hit them. Jim lived to see politics destroy his work and the unit dismantled but he didn't let it destroy him. He went on to do community service and dedicated himself to his family in his retirement. Amen Jim Amen, job well done.
I greatly admired Jim. He was a wonderful gentleman and a true professional. He is the last of the OSS class intel officers. I will miss him.
ReplyDeletejd
We are so sad----may his wonderful sence of humor and family loyalty be passed on through his family.he was the unforgettable JIM.Love Judy and Scotty
ReplyDeleteJudy and I are saddened at the loss of a longtime friend and co-worker. God bless you Jim and safe journey. We will miss you.
ReplyDeleteBarbara - our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless you and the family. Jim is safe now. We will continue to think of you. Love Judy & Phil Wheeler
Barb, I just got finished putting this Blog in printable format for you. What a story of love courage and downright tenacity. I can't imagine how you Fays perservered for the past 10 months. Barb your kids are truly remarkable. But as Ma Farley used to say "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree". I am saddened at the loss of a true friend. The email I sent to you a few weeks ago summed up what Jim meant to me. I'll miss him dearly. Barb I won't be able to make the funeral. My hip hasn't recovered enough to withstand a 10 hour round trip in the car. It's ironic that the problem that plagued Jim all these years, now keeps me away from being with you in your time of need. Needless to say I'll be there in spirit and remember all of the Fays in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you all
andy
Dear Mrs. Fay and family,
ReplyDeleteThoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time of celebration and grief.
May you find comfort and strength in each other, and in the many memories shared and friends touched by your loving presence.
Peace be with you,
Ginnie Morrow
safe and sound uncle jim,and god bless.god daughter,gretchen.
ReplyDeleteJim was a unique individual whom I had the pleasure and privilege of working with and knowing as a friend for many years. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteBrice Gilson
to the friends who worked wt Jim in intel.
ReplyDeleteI'm Jim's brother Bob.thank you for giving me & all Jim's kin some idea of his contributions in the service of his country.I had no idea-he was just my brother who i thought was a know it all pain in the ass growing up.we did grow much closer as the years passed.Jim would always tell me i can't tell you-which must not surprise you.
Your words meant a lot to me & the extended family
i'll post this later again because i want to be sure you know how your words are appreciated.
bob fay